Romeo and Juliet??

Some say human beings are complex species, hard to predict and has its mind of its own… How true is this?

As for me, I think that humans’ behavior are getting much more and more predictable

From my past experiences, I learn that guys’ actions and way of thinking are much alike… not all, but MOST of them.

I bet most girls out there would pretty much agree with me when I said that, the majority of guys would try their very best at winning a girl’s heart… acting all sweet in the first few months, treating her like a queen and as if his life revolve around her… *you’re like the sun to me* So they say…

Familiar?

Guys fall in and out of love very promptly…

It’s a no wonder why Romeo killed himself for Juliet believing that Juliet took hers out of love for him… but instead Juliet used her brain by taking the “momentary-death potion”… *but then again, she killed herself right after she found Romeo breathless…* O.o (sidetrack)

Now here’s the vital part… after that first few months, they turn sour, bitter, jerky, you name it…

Just to state a few;

They stop calling you like they use to all the time…

They stop telling you their whereabouts even though they promised to before… *I can but u can’t*

Lots and lots of excuses starts popping out from their pipe hole as if we are dim enough in believing them but in fact, *all gals would know this* we love them too deeply we look pass this… (I think this is one of the traits that most girls would be striving to get rid off)

And… the rest, no need for me to mention.

Now, imagine if Romeo had been with Juliet for more than years, not say a day like in the movies or the books… would he be this “courageous” to go kill himself just because he can’t be with her? :D I don’t think sooooo… he’s just too naïve…

Guys after they broke up with the girl, if she dumped him, he’ll definitely turn into a jerk… either start calling her names or start telling others stuff that only he knows and used that against the girl.

Or,

Tell those around him that he dumped her because she’s not good enough for him. All in all, it’s just to shield his self-worth… if there’s any *note that, girls, don’t even care about that!*

The worst if he assails those close to her. Like provoking her best friends, trying so hard to make them think that this poor girl here is backstabbing them… wow… how stupid can that guy be?

The truth… let me unveil the truth… or should I say, let me put some sense into those guys who falls into this category… when in a relationship, its only NATURAL to complain to her boyfriend if she’s unhappy with any of her friends… she sees him as a place where she can find solace in, to release stress, to have someone to talk to and to understand her. Please note this guys and girls… It’s a complaint! Not trying to backstab anybody!

Visualize this… if Romeo and Juliet were to come apart by Juliet’s will… will he still love her or would he pierce a sword against her chess and into her heart and be content? After all, their families were adversaries. :)

In the modern context, guys that falls in this category will try their awfully best to bring her down, put shame, and therefore “win” the battle… a self proclaiming victory…

To me… those guys are just being as*es and need to grow up.

*if you can’t have her, back off with dignity not disrespect*